Question solved.....
You have to use MPT's Bro. I just got rid of my IC502's. lol and this is what I used.
You have to connect to MPT, and select the V325 phone from the list. This is the only one that I had luck with connecting to my IC502. Try that, and you should be good to go. Just go back thru the connect set up wizard, and select that one. (V325)

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